To weigh or not to weigh

Saw my counsoler this am and she suggested I put the scale away for awhile. She says I tend to associate exercise with losing weight and that is the wrong mindset….because when the scale does not say what I think it should say I will get frustrated and quit. She told me I should follow my bodies cues and it will get to a weight my body is comfortable with not me myself mentally but where my body wants to be on its own as long as I continue to exercise and eat healthy. She claims our bodies have a predisposition to want or need to be at a certain weight and no matter how much we push pull or drag ourselves above or below that number it still wants to fall in that range. I don’t know if I can put the scale away and not peek at it for awhile I told her of my plan of wanting to lose 12 pounds by the new year…she said I was setting up for failure because I was putting a number on it and that I would not be happy if I did not reach that. Instead I should be happy with working out doing the right thing and the number should not matter. Does that make sense to you all what do you think?

Would you like to join a team?

The natural Elements are looking for a few new team members to fill our roster. We are a weight loss team on the forum that competes against 3 other teams on a weekly basis. We are looking for dedicated members who are serious about losing weight and are willing to put the time into a team and give and get support. If you would like more info on what is involved contact me and I will be glad to get in touch.

Natural Elements

The natural Elements are looking for several new team members to fill our roster. We are a weight loss team on the forum that competes against 3 other teams on a weekly basis. We are looking for dedicated members who are serious about losing weight and are willing to put the time into a team and give and get support. If you would like more info on what is involved contact me and I will be glad to get in touch.

Natural Elements

The natural Elements are looking for several new team members to fill our roster. We are a weight loss team on the forum that competes against 3 other teams on a weekly basis. We are looking for dedicated members who are serious about losing weight and are willing to put the time into a team and give and get support. If you would like more info on what is involved contact me and I will be glad to get in touch.

Well said

 20 Ways to Get Mentally Tough (Excerpt from Training Camp: What the Best Do Better Than Everyone Else)

1. When you face a setback, think of it as a defining moment that will lead to a future accomplishment.
2. When you encounter adversity, remember, the best don’t just face adversity; they embrace it, knowing it’s not a dead end but a detour to something greater and better.
3. When you face negative people, know that the key to life is to stay positive in the face of negativity, not in the absence of it. After all, everyone will have to overcome negativity to define themselves and create their success.
4. When you face the naysayers, remember the people who believed in you and spoke positive words to you.
5. When you face critics, remember to tune them out and focus only on being the best you can be.
6. When you wake up in the morning, take a morning walk of gratitude and prayer. It will create a fertile mind ready for success.
7. When you fear, trust. Let your faith be greater than your doubt.
8. When you fail, find the lesson in it, and then recall a time when you have succeeded.
9. When you head into battle, visualize success.
10. When you are thinking about the past or worrying about the future, instead focus your energy on the present moment. The now is where your power is the greatest.
11. When you want to complain, instead identify a solution.
12. When your own self-doubt crowds your mind, weed it and replace it with positive thoughts and positive self-talk.
13. When you feel distracted, focus on your breathing, observe your surroundings, clear your mind, and get into The Zone. The Zone is not a random event. It can be created.
14. When you feel all is impossible, know that with God all things are possible.
15. When you feel alone, think of all the people who have helped you along the way and who love and support you now.
16. When you feel lost, pray for guidance.
17. When you are tired and drained, remember to never, ever give up. Finish Strong in everything you do.
18. When you feel like you can’t do it, know that you can do all things through Him who gives you strength.
19. When you feel like your situation is beyond your control, pray and surrender. Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t.
20. When you’re in a high-pressure situation and the game is on the line, and everyone is watching you, remember to smile, have fun, and enjoy it. Life is short; you only live once. You have nothing to lose

New Members

The Fitness Fanatics are looking for new team members. We are a weight loss team who competes on the forums against other teams on the site! It is a great fun and motivational way to give and get support and get where you want to be on this weight loss journey. We offer lots of support and motivation! If you are interested in more info shoot me an e-mail and I will be in touch!

New Members Welcome!!!

The Fitness Fanatics are looking for 13 new team members. We are a weight loss team who competes on the forums against other teams on the site! It is a great fun and motivational way to give and get support and get where you want to be on this weight loss journey. If you are interested in more info shoot me an e-mail and I will be in touch!

New Team Members

Hey BuddySlimmers,

The Fitness Fanatics team is looking for some new members to join our team! We need some dedicated people who are looking to lose weight and get the support they need to do so and offer support to other team members

 If you are interested in joining our Team please e-mail me and I will fill you in on how the team works! We have 14 spots open!

Day 376

I found this website 376 days ago….I started this journey that same day…I weighed in at 219 pounds. I was bound and determined to not let another year go by without getting healthy. I had my ups and downs last year just like everyone else…I was expecting that…I knew the road would be long and hard. I just did not know that I would over time start making excuses…I would fall and not pick myself back up…I would use food to reward myself…I would become more addicted to fast food then I have ever been in my 34 years of life. I knew how to do everything….I just did not feel those rules applied to me… I could brave this on my own. I could give support and advice…but I did not have to take my own advice…I after all can do this!!!

So here I sit day 376 of my journey…I have lost and gained in the last year over 107 pounds. Wow when I look back at that number I’m embarassed by that…so all and all I lost to my advantage 8 pounds. I took some time yesterday to re-read all my blogs from last year…they really were an eye opener…(I can’t thank the person enough that suggested I do this).  376 days ago I may have been ready to make a change but I was not ready to set the plan in motion. Now I’m ready to set that plan in motion!

A lot has happened to me over the last week. It has given me some pespective on my health. I found a lump in my right breast…I have been through the mamogram and the ultrasound and now the next stop is the surgeon for a second opinon. They are not expecting this to be cancer only a lymph node that is bothersome I have come to find out. But when you are in the dark and don’t know what is going on with your health it is scary as hell. I have come to realize this is it we all only get one life to take care of ourselves. I know somethings are just out of our control health wise…but I have learned from what I’m going through right now I want to be in control of what I can. So I’m getting that ball rolling towards a better healthier me.  I’m looking forward to going to see the surgeon just so I can put this behind me and concentrate on the things that are within my reach.

So all I have to say is…Hi everyone my name is Jenn and this is DAY 1 if my new journey!

Great Article thought I would share.

Why Drinking Water Really is the Key to Weight Loss

by Maia Appleby

Don’t roll your eyes! The potion for losing that excess body fat is all around you. It covers two thirds of the planet. If you eat right and exercise at the intensity, frequency and duration proper for you, but still can’t get rid of a little paunch here and there, you’re probably just not drinking enough water.

No need to get defensive. You’re actually quite normal. Most people don’t drink enough water. Most people are also carrying around a few more pounds than they would be if they did drink enough water. If you can’t seem to get that weight off, try drowning your sorrows in nature’s magical weight-loss mineral. It works, and here’s why:

“What on Earth is ‘metabolism’, anyway?” People use the term all the time, but ask them what it means and you’ll get all kinds of answers. Merriam Webster defines it as, “The process by which a substance is handled in the body.” A little vague, but that’s really all it means.

There are many forms of metabolism going on in your body right now, but the one everyone is talking about it the metabolism of fat. This is actually something that the liver does when it converts stored fat to energy. The liver has other functions, but this is one of its main jobs.

Unfortunately, another of the liver’s duties is to pick up the slack for the kidneys, which need plenty of water to work properly. If the kidneys are water-deprived, the liver has to do their work along with its own, lowering its total productivity. It then can’t metabolize fat as quickly or efficiently as it could when the kidneys were pulling their own weight. If you allow this to happen, not only are you being unfair to your liver, but you’re also setting yourself up to store fat.

“I’ve tried it and I couldn’t stand it!” The problem is that, though many decide to increase their water intake, very few stick with it. It’s understandable. During the first few days of drinking more water than your body is accustomed to, you’re running to the bathroom constantly. This can be very discouraging, and it can certainly interfere with an otherwise normal day at work. It seems that the water is coming out just as fast as it’s going in, and many people decide that their new hydration habit is fruitless.

Do take heed , though. What is really happening is that your body is flushing itself of the water it has been storing throughout all those years of “survival mode”. It takes a while, but this is a beautiful thing happening to you. As you continue to give your body all the water it could ask for, it gets rid of what it doesn’t need. It gets rid of the water it was holding onto in your ankles and your hips and thighs, maybe even around your belly. You are excreting much more than you realize. Your body figures it doesn’t need to save these stores anymore; it’s trusting that the water will keep coming, and if it does, eventually, the flushing (of both the body and the potty) will cease, allowing the human to return to a normal life. It’s true. This is called the “breakthrough point.”

One recent finding, as irresponsible as it may be, that caffeine increases the body’s fat-burning potential has many people loading up on coffee before going to the gym. This finding may hold some degree of truth in it, but caffeine is, in essence, a diuretic, and diuretics dehydrate. Caffeine may increase the heart rate, causing a few more calories to be burned, but this is at the expense of the muscles, which need water to function properly. This isn’t doing your heart any favors, either. It’s already working hard enough during your workout. Never mix caffeine and exercise. In fact, your best bet is to stay away from caffeine all together. It’s a big bully that pushes your friend water out of your system.

Water is the best beauty treatment. You’ve heard this since high school, and it’s true. Water will do wonders for your looks! It flushes out impurities in your skin, leaving you with a clear, glowing complexion. It also makes your skin look younger. Skin that is becoming saggy, either due to aging or weight loss, plumps up very nicely when the skin cells are hydrated.

In addition, it improves muscle tone. You can lift weights until you’re blue in the face, but if your muscles are suffering from a drought, you won’t notice a pleasant difference in your appearance. Muscles that have all the water they need contract more easily, making your workout more effective, and you’ll look much nicer than if you had flabby muscles under sagging skin.

“Eight glasses a day? Are you kidding?!” It’s really not that much. Eight 8-ounce glasses amount to about two quarts of water. This is okay for the average person, but if you’re overweight, you should drink another eight ounces for every 25 pounds of excess weight you carry. You should also up this if you live in a hot climate or exercise very intensely.

This water consumption should be spread out throughout the day. It’s not healthy at all to drink too much water at one time. Try to pick three or four times a day when you can have a big glass of water, and then sip in between. Don’t let yourself get thirsty. If you feel thirsty, you’re already becoming dehydrated. Drink when you’re not thirsty yet.

Do you think water is yucky? Drinking other fluids will certainly help hydrate your body, but the extra calories, sugar, additives and whatever else aren’t what you need. Try a slice of lemon or lime in the glass, or if you really think you hate water, try a flavored water. Just make sure you read the labels. Remember that you’re going to be consuming a lot of this fluid.

It’s probably a good idea to stop drinking water a good three hours before you go to bed. You know why.

“How cold should it be?” This is debatable. Most experts lean toward cold water, because the stomach absorbs it more quickly. There is also some evidence that cold water might enhance fat burning.On the other hand, warmer water is easier to drink in large quantities, and you might drink more of it without even realizing it. Do whatever suits you, here. Just drink it!

When you drink all the water you need, you will very quickly notice a decrease in your appetite, possibly even on the first day! If you’re serious about becoming leaner and healthier, drinking water is an absolute must. If you’re doing everything else right and still not seeing results, this might just be what’s missing.

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